It actually took me a while to think about what I should write for this topic. Its a strange thing to ask someone to do, look at yourself through someone elses eyes. As weird as it was for me to think about what my total opposite would think of me, i realized that is something that everyone does. Everyone thinks about what other people think about them. So during this process I came to the conclusion that my opposite would see me as a person who cares alot about people in her life and what they think of her. She likes to make people happy, conflict is not something that she enjoys in her life she feels there are better ways to spend your time. She is cautious in unfamiliar situations, they make her feel extremely uncomfortable. Such as meeting new people, she becomes a shrinking violet not always but 99% of the time. The unknown is something that terrifies her its like walking down a dark alley in New York City at night, you don’t always know whats going to be at the other end and sometimes you don’t want to know. She doesn’t always know how to deal with the unknown in the best ways but she always seems to make it through it okay. Relying on other people to help her with these things is not something that she frequently does, she feels as if she should go through things on her own. So in short she is a shy person who acts as if they are not shy, and that they do good in unfamiliar situations.